Have you made any resolutions? I usually welcome a new year as an opportunity to revamp absolutely everything about myself–health, friendships, house cleaning, artistic endeavors, flossing routines. I figure if I try to change everything, something good will stick. This usually works out and is also more fun than choosing just one big thing and being disappointed when it doesn’t.
In case you’re looking for more resolutions to add to your list (or just one good one), you might consider adding more letter writing to your life. Snail mail enthusiasts (which I assume you, dear reader, are) might already write a lot of letters. But in case you are more of a postal voyeur, or you are looking for a bit of encouragement to put pen to paper, you might consider what Emily did. She wrote a letter a week for a year to someone important in her life, extolling their virtues and her thankfullness for having them in her life. I think this is 1) a reasonable pace and 2) a good way of reminding yourself to consciously appreciate what people bring into your life. Friends, coworkers, family and near-strangers might bring joy, a sense of humor, good cooking, or a keen eye for detail. And people like being recognized for the unique gifts they bring to others. It’s a win-win.
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If you are feeling really frisky–you could to a thank you note a day like John Kralik. He says all that focus on the good things he experienced every day (to which he had to pay attention so he could send a thank you note) changed his life!
In the post-holiday lull, it’s a good time to send those notes of gratitude for holiday kindnesses and it’s a nice way to brighten up a cold, dreary month. Happy writing!